The Invisible Red Thread

"An invisible red thread connects those destined to meet, regardless of time, place, or circumstances. The thread may stretch or tangle, but never break."

~Ancient Chinese Proverb

Monday, January 31, 2011

If You are Meeting Us in FL...

Please make sure you know our flight info. I will try to update from Hong Kong but we will see how the internet connection is. We are hoping everything stays the same but with the storm, who knows. I will text/call once we are back in the US and let you know. Love you all and can't wait to see you!!!!
 
Love from China:-)

Ready to Leave GZ!

Yesterday concluded with our Consulate Appointment and Oath Taking Ceremony. We signed our DS-230 paperwork which had originated after we received our referral for Sweet Cheeks. All went off without a hitch and to celebrate, we dined with some of our friends at the Cow and Bridge!  Yummmy Thai food. It was great! 
 
We completed the rest of our shopping and today has been spent packing. We check-out at 1:00pm, head to the Consulate to pick-up Sweet Cheeks Chinese Passport with her US Visa and then we are off to the train station. We are taking a train from Guangzhou to Hong Kong. We will arrive in Hong Kong around 6:00pm and head to our hotel for the evening. Tomorrow, we head to the airport to see if our plane to Chicago will actually be leaving! It appears there is a weather hurdle in our way. O'Hare is predicted to receive 20 inches of snow between Tuesday and Wednesday.
 
We have been in contact with United Airlines about re-routing but we are choosing to hang tight for the time being. Hopefully, it is a good decision. Our re-route was through Newark and since the storm is moving east, that would not be a good choice either. So, we shall see. Fingers and toes crossed it all works out and we get home on Wednesday as planned. I have hotelitis and we are all ready to be home!

Having a Blast in Guangzhou!

So, let's see what all has been going on since our last post.... Saturday evening we had dinner with IKE at a wonderful, local Cantonese restaurant. We had yummy eggplant and a beef dish that was to die for!  All of the food was great but we also had wonderful company. A family from our group, the Levine's went with us and a family that IKE is working with was also there. It was wonderful to see IKE after he took such wonderful care of us and our travel group almost six years ago on our adoption trip to get Cupcake. We sent him best wishes from our travel mates!
 
Sunday, we had big plans to tag along with another family who was taking the subway to the Guangzhou Zoo. Well, as we were having breakfast, we were informed that many of the local shops on the Island would be closed after today for Chinese New Year.... oh no!  So, shopping we did. We hit Sherry's Place for a few (well, a lot) pair of squeaky shoes. We got numerous styles in various colors. That was one of the things I wished I would have bought more of for Cupcake. Sweet Cheeks will be styling for a few years. Of course, we had a chop stamp made for Sweet Cheeks and bought many sizes of Chinese dresses for both girls to have matching ones. We had Subway for lunch!  That was quite interesting.... meat and no veggies on the sandwich. My stomach is just now getting to feel better so I am not taking any chances on the veggies washed in tap water. Nuf said.
 
Last night, we again had dinner with IKE. He is so sweet!  And he knows this area like the back of his hand, telling us where to shop, who to avoid and what constitutes a "best price."  We went back to the same Cantonese restaurant and again had a wonderful meal. All for about $20. Can't beat that with a ballbat. Nana stayed behind and we brought her back noodles and eggplant for take away.
 
Sweet Cheeks has had diarrhea since we have had her. I was convinced it was the runny eggs but I am wondering if it might be the formula. Anyhoo, we got some tea to stop the diarhea which seems to be working but she does not like to drink it so we will see how it goes. Otherwise, Sweet Cheeks is doing great. She has gotten vocal about what she does and does not like. She seems to be quite a picky eater. Boo! But she is adorable and I love her to the moon and back!
 
Today, we had to be in our room at 9:00am and stay there until we had the OK call from Veronica. We tag teamed breakfast with Dad and Cupcake going first, followed by  me, Nana and Sweet Cheeks. It was difficult finding something that Sweet Cheeks would actually eat and then I gave her the eggwhite from a hard boiled egg which she loved! Finally, my girl is getting some protein.
 
After breakfast and the OK call, we commenced for the famous RED COUCH picture at the White Swan. This was a picture taken of all the children from our travel group as well as a group shot. Only problem being, Sweet Cheeks fell asleep midway through and was not a happy camper. Those pics ought to be pretty funny.
 
Now, we are waiting for our Consulate Appointment which is in a few hours. After we take our oath, we are officially finished with adoption proceedings - YAH!!! Just a formality really. So that is the rest of our time. Tomorrow, we get Sweet Cheeks' visa, hop a train to Hong Kong, spend the night and then hop a plane bound for the US of A!!!! Can't wait to see friends and family at home. It has been a long two weeks and we are excited to introduce our Sweet Cheeks to everyone.
 
Cupcake is having a great time and does not want to come home. She thinks living at the White Swan on Shamian Island, making lots of friends, having a hot breakfast with whatever she wants, someone to make your bed, is pretty spot-on! I tend to agree but I am ready to go.
 
Some observations we have made while being back in Guangzhou:  shopping is much more expensive now and it seems many shops have spread out away from the White Swan. There is not as much negotiating as there once was which is sad. As you walk around, the majority of the families are here adopting special needs babies. Another thing, has been the stories we have heard of adoptions that went wrong and second referrals being done while the families are here in China. Six years ago, things were much different or we never heard the stories. Probably a little of both, I am guessing.
 
We have met quite a few families with older daughters, the same age as Cupcake, and they are back for little sisters. It has been a God send meeting them and having some girl time for Cupcake. It is always intersting to me, how the girls act with one another. It is like they have been friends for years.
 
We have had a wonderful time with our travel group and have certainly made some lifelong friends. We are already talking about a reunion!! 
 
PS - No hate mail, I will update pics later this evening:-) Love you all!

Saturday, January 29, 2011

Sweet Cheeks is Napping...

and Cupcake is hanging out in Nana's room. Daddy is doing the official paperwork stuff and I am hanging out, catching up on email. So, here is a little more about Sweet Cheeks:
 
She is adorable... and today, she lifted both of her arms up to me so I would pick her up. Her smiles and laughter are coming much more frequently and she is playing with her toys. Her favorite thing still seems to be her stacking cups and the ziploc bag the toys were packed in... go figure. But the good news is, she is starting to play.
 
We have had some sibling rivalry and some bids for attention from Big Sister which is only normal as our family dynamics have changed. At times it is quite challenging but we are working through it. Cupcake has spent every night with us. We figured she would go to Nana's room at night, but so far, she is hanging tough with a sometimes crying baby. Last night, everyone was so tired, you could have tap danced on Cupcake's forehead and she would have slept right through it, so the crying baby did not phase her at all.
 
Not that we are in Guangzhou, we are in a group of 11 families, all here to finish all the paperwork, go to our Consulate Appointment, get our baby's Visa and be on our way.  So, that is what we are now waiting to do. After that, we are headed home! 

We are in Guangzhou!

"This is what I'm talking about!" says Cupcake as we enter the White Swan Hotel. This place really is quite the oasis after the cold, dreary, area of Nanchang where we just left.
 
We arrived here late last night after an uneventful flight from Nanchang. Sweet Cheeks was quite the trooper on the plane, only crying a few minutes as we started our approach into Guangzhou. Once we landed and collected our luggage we were met by our new guide, Veronica. We made it to our room last night around 11:00pm. Needless to say, Sweet Cheeks was overtired and took quite a bit of convincing to go to sleep.
 
This morning we were up early because we had to meet Veronica and take the babies for their Visa pictures and then off for their medical examination. Sweet Cheeks passed with flying colors. The examination is pretty basic: weight, temperature, hearing (squeak a toy in each ear, if she moves her head toward the noise, she passes!) and a physical exam. No issues here!
 
After that, we made our way to Starbuck's for a Vanilla Latte for me and a Hot Chocolate for Cupcake. It is a warmer here and sunny which counts for a lot!  The atmosphere and surroundings are much nicer, cleaner and more quiet. I don't think I have heard the first horn blare or wave of fireworks going off. That's progress... and one day closer to home! Yippee!!!
 
We have paperwork to do this afternoon but the rest of the day is free. Sweet Cheeks is getting stronger everyday and soaking up the love. I call her my little Love Sponge. She just flourishes in the hugs, kisses and attention.
 
One thing I forgot to mention, as we were leaving the Nanchang yesterday, Michael, our guide gave us a memory book with with handprints, pictures and journaling of Sweet Cheeks. We had heard that the orphanage participated in Half The Sky and apparently, Sweet Cheeks was involved in their program. Definitely a priceless piece of her history.
 
Enough for now, enjoy the pics! Thanks for all of the emails and love from home. My eyes are still red and itchy but not draining like they were.

Last days in Nanchang pics

 

Day 7 Nanchang Pics

Here are some pics from our Park Day. Enjoy!